Finding Yourself - Fear Rules Us: Chapter 2

Life is most of the time, overtaken by fear.

We are constantly worrying about losing something that we dearly possess. Our career, family, money, and all the earthly fortunes will come and go with time. New characters join in with the passing weather and meld our life, in the direction as it suits most comfortable and least threatened.

What should we remember?

It may take time. We may put our patience to test. And fruits of the future may not be seen at any time soon. Having said all this, we should remember we have waited all year long for the ripe mangoes in our childhood. And mangoes, still only ripe during summer.

Everything happens for a purpose and follow their personal clock. We cannot change it, so we must wait for the perfect opportunity.

Finding Yourself – The start: Chapter 1

Every person has multiple personalities in this multi-tasking needed society. No one lives his or her real character because they are surprisingly afraid that society will not accept them.

Why do we need to be scared?

Is it because we want them to accept us for being their friends, colleague, partner, or merely a person who is part of their life. We are desperate to be regularly with someone at all times. We need someone to be around us, to support us, to praise us, to hang out, to party with, to go to places, to share our happy times, to showcase that we are doing great in our lives; also during sad times. But the actual reason is that we are too frightened that we would be left out from theirs.

What is tougher?

Being yourself has become extremely tough these days due to this reason. More accurately many of us hardly know what our actual true self is anymore.

I hope people would try to dig in and see what is that they desire. Trust me; if you somehow figure out yourself and what you want you would be more successful in Life.